Resources
Curated resources across all four conditions — communities, research, and products I actually use.
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UARS — Sleep & Airway
Communities & Information
Dr. Steven Park's Website & Podcast
Extensive archive on UARS and sleep breathing disorders. Essential starting point.
r/UARS Subreddit
Patient community for validation and provider recommendations. Use with discernment — negativity bias is real in health forums.
r/UARSnew
Smaller, more technical community focused on UARS treatment options.
Hope2Sleep Charity
UK-based charity for sleep disordered breathing awareness and support.
Products & Tools
✦ Oura Ring
I use thisSleep stage and HRV tracking. I use this to build an objective record of sleep quality over time — valuable evidence for medical appointments. Tracks trends across weeks, not just last night.
✦ MyoTape Mouth Tape
Encourages nasal breathing during sleep without fully sealing the mouth. Gentler design — the tape goes around the lips rather than over them, so you can still open your mouth if needed. Good starting point if you're new to mouth taping.
✦ Hostage Tape
Stronger hold than MyoTape — designed for mouth breathers who find softer tape doesn't stay put. Beard-friendly and CPAP-compatible. The bigger brand in the space for a reason.
✦ Myospots
Small dissolvable spots placed on the roof of the mouth to train correct tongue posture throughout the day. Part of myofunctional therapy — helps retrain the tongue to rest in the right position, which supports airway health over time.
✦ BON CHARGE Blue Light Glasses
I use thisBlue light blocking glasses for evening use. Reducing light exposure in the 2 hours before bed supports melatonin and helps a dysregulated nervous system wind down. I use the amber lens version.
NSDR (Non-Sleep Deep Rest) on YouTube
Free guided deep rest sessions. Different from sleep — useful for daytime nervous system regulation when you can't nap. Search "NSDR 10 minutes" for accessible options.
CPTSD — Nervous System & Trauma
Communities & Information
Polyvagal Institute
Resources on Polyvagal Theory — foundational for understanding why UARS and CPTSD interact the way they do.
Somatic Experiencing International
Practitioner directory for somatic trauma therapy. More effective than talk therapy alone for many CPTSD presentations.
CPTSD Foundation
Education, resources, and community for complex trauma survivors.
IFS Institute (Internal Family Systems)
Information and therapist directory for the IFS model — particularly useful for the parts-based work around sleep and nervous system protection.
Crappy Childhood Fairy (YouTube)
Anna Runkle's channel on healing from childhood trauma and CPTSD. Practical, direct, not clinical — she talks about the real-life patterns (relationships, emotional flashbacks, dysregulation) in a way that actually lands.
Products & Tools
✦ Weighted Blanket (Gravity Blankets)
I use thisDeep pressure stimulation activates the parasympathetic nervous system. For those with hyperarousal or bedtime anxiety, a weighted blanket can make a genuine difference. I use mine every night.
✦ Ancient Minerals Magnesium
Topical magnesium (oil or lotion). Most adults are deficient, and deficiency worsens anxiety, sleep quality, and muscle tension — all of which affect nervous system regulation. The transdermal route bypasses GI absorption issues.
Curable App
Mind-body approach to chronic pain and symptoms. Grounded in pain neuroscience education — useful for understanding central sensitisation alongside somatic work.
Visible: Pacing App
Activity tracking built for chronic illness, not fitness. Helps identify your energy envelope and avoid the boom-bust cycle that dysregulates the nervous system further.
PMDD — Hormonal Health
Communities & Information
IAPMD (International Association for PMDD)
The leading global resource for PMDD. Diagnosis criteria, treatment options, crisis support, and provider directory.
r/PMDD Subreddit
Large active patient community (100k+ members). Good for treatment experiences and knowing you're not alone.
Vicious Cycle: Making PMDD Visible
Patient-led resource hub for PMDD awareness and advocacy.
Me v PMDD
UK-focused PMDD support and education. Good resource for navigating the NHS with a PMDD presentation.
Products & Tools
✦ Oura Ring
I use thisTracks HRV, resting heart rate, and temperature — all of which shift across the cycle. Useful for identifying your own pattern and building objective data for medical appointments.
✦ Ancient Minerals Magnesium
Magnesium plays a role in progesterone metabolism and nervous system regulation. Worth trying in the luteal phase specifically — topical application avoids the GI issues oral magnesium can cause.
✦ BON CHARGE Red Light Therapy
Emerging evidence for red light therapy in reducing inflammation and supporting mitochondrial function — relevant for the fatigue component of PMDD. Not a cure, but a useful addition.
Endometriosis — Chronic Pain & Inflammation
Communities & Information
Endometriosis UK
UK's leading endometriosis charity. Helpline, support groups, and comprehensive information on diagnosis and treatment.
Nancy's Nook Endometriosis Education
Curated research on excision surgery and a database of excision-specialist surgeons. Essential for anyone considering surgery.
BSGE (British Society for Gynaecological Endoscopy)
Directory of BSGE-accredited endometriosis centres in the UK — the ones you should be asking for referral to.
r/Endo Subreddit
Large endo patient community (400k+ members) for shared experience and support.
Products & Tools
✦ Weighted Blanket (Gravity Blankets)
I use thisDeep pressure can help with pain management and nervous system regulation on difficult days. A weighted blanket is one of the few things that reliably helps me through bad flares.
✦ BON CHARGE Red Light Therapy
Anti-inflammatory mechanism with emerging evidence for endometriosis-related pain. Used as part of a broader pain management approach — not a replacement for medical treatment.
✦ Ancient Minerals Magnesium
Magnesium has documented anti-inflammatory properties and supports muscle relaxation — relevant for pelvic pain. Topical application directly to areas of tension or pain.
Visible: Pacing App
Pacing is one of the most underrated tools for chronic pain management. Visible tracks your energy expenditure and helps you stay within your envelope — reducing the flare-crash cycle.
Books Worth Reading
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✦ The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk
The foundational text on how trauma is stored in the body. Essential reading for understanding why UARS and CPTSD interact.
✦ Waking the Tiger — Peter Levine
The original Somatic Experiencing text. Accessible and practical — explains the trauma-in-the-body model in plain language.
✦ No Bad Parts — Richard Schwartz
The IFS model in an accessible format. Particularly useful for the parts-based nervous system work — the protector, the exile, the critic.
✦ The Myth of Normal — Gabor Maté
On the relationship between chronic illness, trauma, and a medical system that treats them separately. Validating and well-researched.
✦ Why We Sleep — Matthew Walker
The comprehensive case for why sleep is not optional. Useful context — though note it doesn't address UARS or sleep-disordered breathing directly.
